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The Water looks COLD!
What held me back from giving 'sobriety' a try? For me it was a fear that everything enjoyable about my life would come to an end.....I...
Jeff Graham
May 26, 20232 min read
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I was under the influence even when i wasn't under the influence!
I was under the influence of alcohol even when I wasn't under the actual influence of alcohol! My life's decisions were all influenced...
Jeff Graham
Oct 18, 20222 min read
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Temptation in Sheep's Clothing
I've always been a people pleaser, but when I applied those principles to alcohol, I lost control of my life. Alcohol was always a great...
Jeff Graham
Sep 30, 20227 min read
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Alcohol, Anxiety and a real slow learner...
I read a great post this morning written by my good friend Susan Settle Larkin about alcohol and anxiety, and I thought I'd share a...
Jeff Graham
Sep 30, 20223 min read
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How Long is Forever
Lisa Ryan Certified Coach Keep Looking Upwards – Words of Wisdom How long is forever A lot of people tell me they have trouble with the...
Jeff Graham
Dec 24, 20213 min read
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Santa brought 'presence" this year!
2 years ago things would have been different. The picture may have looked the same, but it wouldn't have been REAL. My smile would have...
Jeff Graham
Dec 24, 20212 min read
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I Love Fast Food (When I'm Hungry!!)
Fast Food and I have always gotten along. When I am hungry, I don’t want to sit down and wait for a meal to be prepared. I don’t want...
Jeff Graham
Dec 5, 20213 min read
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Is it Working?
I worry that too many people will make the same mistake that I sometimes make when I truly believe that giving up alcohol, or becoming...
Jeff Graham
Dec 5, 20212 min read
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99 lb Weakling No More
I hear a lot of talk about how to tell people 'no' when offered alcohol, or how to tell people that we no longer drink. I think this...
Jeff Graham
Nov 29, 20212 min read
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Thanksgiving to ME
Sobriety for me is about giving. I did a lot of same to friends and family. But I also did a lot of damage to me. I damaged my future,...
Jeff Graham
Nov 25, 20212 min read
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Feel the Feelings
"Fake it 'til You Make it" Sounds good, but I have faked it my whole life and never made it. Fake money doesn't buy houses, fake love...
Jeff Graham
Oct 17, 20212 min read
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XBox
As one who obviously struggled in the ‘coping mechanisms’ category, I was watching my grandson in front of the television and had to...
Jeff Graham
Oct 4, 20213 min read
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One Room Apartment Dreams
Two years ago, I had dreams. I was very close to giving up, and accepting defeat. What most people call hell, was something I saw as a...
Jeff Graham
Sep 28, 20212 min read
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Tom Brady of Sobriety
Tom Brady has won 7 SuperBowls. His team is off to a 2-1 record for 2021. He holds more records in the NFL than any other player. He...
Jeff Graham
Sep 27, 20213 min read
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Give me a Break
I know I’m not going to drink tonight and I’m pretty confident that I will be good tomorrow night as well, but after that, it probably...
Jeff Graham
Sep 20, 20213 min read
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The Fantasy of Drinking Again
When I romance the thought of drinking, it's amazing how my mind forgets to add in the ugly parts that always occur. When I see friends...
Jeff Graham
Sep 19, 20212 min read
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Slips, Trips, Falls and Forgiveness
To the person reading this who recently slipped up, tripped up, relapsed or drank... If you want to beat yourself up for your 'failure',...
Jeff Graham
Sep 15, 20212 min read
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Mother and Child Reunion
We recently had a guest on who read a letter written by their son reflecting and celebrating their Mom's one year anniversary of sobriety....
Jeff Graham
Sep 10, 20212 min read
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I'll have a Cotton Candy please
Playing the tape out, envisioning and accepting how the movie ends are important tools for me when those moments of cravings hit. It's...
Jeff Graham
Sep 5, 20213 min read
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Shut up Jeff, your way ain't working!
My recovery has been a crazy ride, filled with some struggles but also a ton of incredible gifts that I never experienced. What started...
Jeff Graham
Sep 2, 20213 min read
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